It would put him in a position of feeling less and being looked down on. Not sure if you are, or not. I need suggestions to handld the neurotic behavior, ocd, and opinions. Will he possible convert just to make you happy without really buying into it. She may have served a mission as an ultimatum to herself. The big one is that under Mormon theology both of you must be believing, fully active members to live together in the afterlife. I told her that I want to only be friends. This girl is also a real person, not a caricature of a cult member, and even if the ultimate result is a breakup, she deserves to be treated with compassion and respect. He can't make a mental switch easily to adjust to our pace of life. These exclusions, dictated by doctrine, hold the potential to create wedges between you, both immediately, and in the long term.
Ok, so what concerns do you have about the biggest difference of allвwhen your child brings home a potential mate of a completely different gender. That's probably true, and that would be a great thing for her, but they wouldn't see it that way. I learned that you have to weigh thes things out--is it someone you care enough about to wait for. All your beloved friends and family are in Seattle. She will probably feel persecuted and attacked if you try.
My mom always said the more you have, the more it owns you, so true. We all wondered why should would go against such a blessing. Do what feels right. Sorry dude, she is in way to deep. I've been married over 4 years to a 1st year GI fellow. This woman is a human being, not a caricature of a TBM.
The schedule is erratic at best. All i want to do it cry reading all of these posts. If you can love them unconditionally with how they are now, then I say go for it. I am struggling to find an answer to this question for several reasons. She was a mormon and he finally joined the church at For 40 years there was a disconnect and she really viewed him as a lesser person cause he wasn't a member. Make sure she is Even after that, the Church discourages them from entering serious relationships before they are considering marriage.