I am lucky that I am not yet married to him, hence i have a choice to decide. The closet is deep though I think that's seriously generalizing. It was totally eye-opening. And yet when retirement comes up in the conversation, its a definite "not while I have the skills "- 75 maybe. I had a business, 3 engineering degrees, numerous patents, and was working countless hours a week to try and keep a roof over our heads, make sure she was fed, the house was clean, bills were paid, etc. No walking your daughter down the aisle, no giving your daughter away at the alter, nothing but you standing outside the temple waiting till it's over. With that same attitude they will rise up on the other side of the veil. However, I'm going to show him your post tonight and hopefully he will agree that it's worth a try. He was not a prominent man in the church. Eternity is a long time.
Think of every possible scenario you can think of. This can make it harder for you two to do things together. If you marry her, you're marrying into a cult, a mild cult as far as cults go, but a cult nonetheless. Deep down I know he could pass on that stuff, but never the less it seems like a necessary inconvenience to attend these events. And so, I always have to think about my son when I have to travel or have other work commitments. How would that motivate you to work out every day to get a girl. When out on a date with a Mormon guy or girl, be very decent, courteous, and well-mannered. Drinkers tend to rely on drink before they can have fun. Your email address will not be published.
Lok for certain things: Spend some time with a few and you will know what to look for. Why Mormons are not racist. A stereotype I hope will be destroyed someday, but not today. It is always a nice idea to plan for your date in advance.
Just know that she has been indoctrinated to believe that she wont reach the highest level of heaven if she isn't married in a Mormon temple to another Mormon. I've been holding out, mostly contentedly, for a time when we could appreciate each other as unique individuals. The LDS Church encourages that young women explore their options and meet all different kinds of people.