I see a future with him but I'm not sure whether I can handle it. You guys are looking into this wayyyyyyy too much. Mormons have a well-known code of health, called the Word of Wisdom. Thanks again for the help. This is especially true when you are around others. I have dated all walks of TBM women TBM women are closet freaks. All that matters to her is things are how they are because god wants them that way.
That's one great thing about the internet and blogging That is exactly how I feel. Mormonism is not meant to be a casual part of a Mormon's life but it is meant to be the center. I'm not trying to be mean, just very clear. There are all kinds of Mormons, and we as exmormons should know better than to stereotype our former selves.
He is doing 2nd year Residency. It seems to me like you are walking into a relationship where there is a significant disconnect from the start. However, be careful to not ask something that may offend your date. Tips Mormon girls are much like other girls their age, in that they want guys to respect them and treat them well. Just a woman who envies the good life of being a medical doctor's wife. Keep things going and see what happens. I've been in a similar situation before. That means that we are always changing and growing. I've read through some stuff there and it all seems pretty tame so far. Also, what do you and your fiancee do to deal with the busyness.
Communicate and get those answers, OP. They might be disappointed, or overjoyed, or judgmental, or supportive. Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives. This is wonderful and in accordance with the desires of a loving Father in Heaven, but it can turn a marriage on its ear, if the spouse is unprepared. I am so happy about 'starting' our life together in a few months, but I feel like I am totally setting myself up for disappointment. If he says he wants to keep things casual, head for the hills - he's the latter and he doesn't appreciate you. Our relationship is not perfect, not easy, but absolutely amazing. I have been married to an anesthesiologist for 15 years his 2nd marriage.