One big question is, does he make you a priority when he has the time to be able to make something other than work a priority. Hell we haven't even gone in a date yet. They seriously have movies about it. I do my best to keep busy during the day, school, cleaning, organizing, going to the gym and my daughter. I love my husband with my whole soul. Hey, thanks for the info.
That settles it for me. Every school events, social gathering, especially weekend calls is making me sad. We just moved in together and I am very afraid of his ocd ways and heavy opinions. I ask myself that every day. Look up all the threads of people who are dealing with their true believing spouses -- the guilt, the silence, the bad communication, the hostage-taking. I hope to be able to love nurses as I once did for many years. Religious differences, however are real. It also means that you have to give her something particular to do. I am hopeful and do feel some healing. To the two wondering sistersвYou both appear to be with loving, incredibly supportive men.
And we are not bloody married yet. Mormons follow the law of Chastity; they believe that the intimate act of lovemaking must be saved for after marriage. He is doing 2nd year Residency. She got engaged 3 months later.
As a fellow man married to a female Dr. I had been teetering on the fringes for quite a long time, mostly coming to Church but not really being present, because I felt like an outcast as an older single. If you do end up having sexual relations, she will feel guilty, and it will affect your relationship, you can count on that. It was actually causing more of a rift than bringing us together.