He can't just put his shoes on and go. There are many good things. It is not easy for a nonmember spouse to understand a three hour worship block plus callings etc. Medical school and residency is really intense, and I think it's pretty common for doctors to get married a little later in life than the average couple.
For our differences in work field I am from non medical background we stay in different cities and hardly get to spend quality time together. If you want to date a Mormon guy or girl, then the best way to meet singles is by visiting the Church. My kids have run as far away from medicine as possible in terms of a career and my daughter only dates people who have balance in their lives.
My parents met when my mom was in 8th grade and married when she was I think my sister married fastest and knew her husband at least 18 months, dating for at least half that. I am struggling with keeping our worlds overlapping. When she had a strict 6: If there was a disagreement, one person was supposed to submit to the other, consult a rulebook that covered almost everything, or turn to a church leader to decide for them. Not sure if you are, or not. BYU was once the perfect place to find a great young woman and get married. We play doctor - then she leaves. I will definitely take your advice and talk with him about my concerns I truely love him and want us to see eye to eye about certain issues since we are working towards being in this for the long run. The religious differences between you two are a deal-breaking fault.
My daughter thinks it's funny that she's known her SO 4 years - not ready for marriage. If it is already an issue in your relationship, then it'll amplify to an extreme if you get married. Oh, and remember LDS girls are usually good at leading guys on with potential sex to get guys to agree to what they want join the church. She can only get sealed to him in a Mormon temple. Rights of all genders are supported here. My family supported me in this. This opens opportunities for all strong and successful masculine men to gain access to these women.
