This comment has been removed by the author. Make an honest effort, and see if you reach the walk-away point. Expect her to either write you off during her mission or pressure you to show interest in the church. If I had one thing to add, mixed race marriages are quite similar. They are always dressed in decent clothing, and the same is expected of their date.
The importance of modesty. Do you truly believe in temple marriage as a requirement for Celestial attainment. Don't let her try to bring in the missionaries to explain; remind her that she is an RM and knows all they do and probably much more. Sometimes you might even get jealous of the patients since they seem to get to even see your 'doctor' more than you do. Will you be open to me teaching my children my athiest point of view. How is that gonna work. For me this has been an opportunity to increase my love, tolerance, compassion and acceptance. But, if ever were there were a time to be overly cautious it's with this topic. And now he is in his 60s.
It's almost like I feel as though I have to watch what I say at all times especially when he has residents calling him for various things, might be on call that night, and has to be at the OR by 5: When I myself was interning in my profession, the girl I interned with had married her boyfriend who is also a specialist earlier that year. He is studying to get into a residency program and I struggle to get his time. So now, after two years, I'm finally starting to realise that just because I've met someone and we love each other dearly, it doesn't mean I get the benefits of having a co-parent around, which is something I desperately want. Keep the relationship casual. Today was my birhtday and my husband spent the whole day at work and all night working on his notes. Become a Redditor and subscribe to one of thousands of communities. She will want her kids blessed, baptized, taking temple trips to baptize for the dead, hold the priesthood, a bishop will ask you sons and daughters if they masterbate and punish them if they do, etc. Make sure the girl you like is already 16 years old. Now, they are limited to only 80 hours per week.
I work full time as well and have supported him throughout med school. Now that I am trying to MCAT study for at least 2 hours a day the pressure to find time together is really high. It's really cool to be able to connect with someone who shares all of those things with me. I appreciate all the replies explaining the extent of the aggravation and pain I likely will face. She's told me the church is one of the most important things to her, but from what I've researched already there's no way I would subject my future children to this culture. Now those are not the problems in my head anymore, whats in my head is how arewe goin to deal with this, ive told her sometimes u wont have anytime for me nor for your kids if we decide to have kids you wont be at the holidays nothing like that and she is always tryin to see everything positive and tells me dont worry ill schedule myself, and im like baby you will not be able to schedule urself your life would be in a hospital. He knows how I feel about spending time together. They will teach the boys that masturbation is evil, which will cause most boys to lie about it and feel deep shame and guilt. Yep, I was an analyst in a bank for 3 years after college. How could I help a non-Mormon spouse to feel like a member of my ward family when he is not a member of my church.
