Then you might want to talk about all the things her church requires. I told her that I want to only be friends. Anyway, I am not sure what the future holds for us, but it was nice to find your blog and see other couples dealing with the same challenges. I think you should start by having some very honest conversations. My husband is a doc in the UK so I moved 7, miles for love. These girls are nervous around non-Mormons. Or am I just being a pushover and need to demand a little more if he wants to keep seeing me. All the shopping, cleaning, cooking, laundry, social planning, trips, any children that we may have and work full time too?.
I've never understood that bit of the LDS culture. Honestly, it isn't her fault. This is the type of doctrine that Joseph rejected and so have the leaders of the church. But the reason I don't know him well enough is because we don't spend enough time together, or I feel like he's not really "letting me in" to get close to him. If you can, do it now. She started crying when I explained this to her. He had the night shift last night so today was his day off and he also has research to do. All people see is the money and that's it.
As for conversion, she just spent every waking second thinking about converting people. That would only encourage her to give up other standards that really are serious and to become like the typical Western degenerate. No hard feelings, is not his fault, I said yes when he proposed based on the life wee had at that time, my fault for not doing some re search and find out how is really when you are a register or in the training programme.
Best of both worlds if you ask me. What do you do while they are away. I'd love to hear from more veterans about how to make this work in the long run.
