We have been together for around three years and I feel like now more than ever he expects me to just do things his way and not have an opinion. Thought the girl and I had a future, and we did, just not with each other I'll bet there are hundreds of boyfriend converts out there. Of course we are talking abt kids and marriage all the time. But we Always had time for each other. They value femininity, motherhood, and masculinity in men. God roots for both our teamsвthe hopeful screw-ups and the straights. Finally, the decision of whom you marry is really between you and God. He came to be by my side as soon as he could. In retrospect, I believe I was being led to my current spouse.
To just see ourselves as support to our husband's "noble" ambitions. We'll discuss further after the holiday and see where we end up. We can also save our errant children by our valiancy too. I'll keep being me and we'll see what happens. I stopped working after our 2nd child because his hours were so irregular and there was no predictability to his schedule.
Make sure everyone involved is a couple, or at least is paired with someone. He is absolutely, hands-down my favorite human being on the planet. Would she want you to attend church with her. Their thinking is something like this. I believe when you die, you die, and you live on in memories and hearts. He has let me be a stay-at-home mother while trying to launch my own business and has offered love and support every step of the way. No one knows your situation the way you do.
However, I did not expect my role in marriage to end up what it has become. My husband has the benefit of having his cake and eating it too. It's gonna end regardless not trying to be a dick, but that is what is going to happen eventuallyso be smart and cut your losses before it gets harder. Oh this is a great set of questions. Sorry ladies, but that's just doesn't cut it for me. Again, reading your blog definitely opened up my eyes to many things I was totally oblivious to. Topics like race and polygamy have been "adequately" explained away, so I don't think we'd get anywhere discussing those things.