And the nonmember spouse may just put pressure on the member spouse to spend more time with them. For example, the irish, polish and the italians basically intermarried. As Joanne mentioned, should you marry interfaith, you will have lots of help from fellow ward members on converting your spouse. Btw, you bringing up CES letter shit before thanksgiving will guarantee a very awkward time with the GF and probably the family for the day. I'm firmly in the RUN camp.
The greatest gift you can give to support: When they want a break, they will ask you and be ready and rejuvenated after. If you care about him, you'll be super understanding, maybe take lunch to him or dinner to the hospital A quick kiss and a thank you may be all you will be able to get. I like to think that what you said really resonated with her. Lots of good hearty healthy food. Becoming a doctor is hard. I could imagine all these nurses throw theirselves at him regardless he being in a relationship with me. Why would you behave any different now. He was the best decision I have ever made in my life, hands down. Her home time is exclusively for the kids and paper work.
The man I started dating 8 years ago, long before med school was in the picture, is disappearing before my very eyes. The only thing I can say is good luck to all. She may be beautiful, friendly, and sincere. But wait a minute.
It CAN work, to be frank. I hate to say it, but I don't see this ending well. I just feel relieved that I'm not the only one feeling like this.