I hope this will change in the future - it would be difficult living a lifestyle like this in the long run. I had many extremely hurtful things said to me, along with an intervention hosted by my married-in-the-temple-and-divorced grandmother. I wanted so badly to marry a guy who had recently left the church. I thought she would grow out of it. We've always had a very loving and intimate relationship, but the physical absence really has made a negative impact. It has just made me realize that these formulas a lot of us Mormons learn growing up about how to have a happy marriage are, well, crap.
And if it's notyou need to find someone in a different field. I have rediscovered what I love about the church but choose not to attend or participate. If you are a believer and are willing to go, then well and good. Up to this point, she has just assumed that all atheists are innately evil people. To me, the core question is, is this person inclined toward self transcendence are the inclined, desirous, self aware enough to be selfless.
Why would you behave any different now. I don't mean to be rude, but she's not gonna give up her "nonsense". This could possibly be worked out with some communication; perhaps he just hasn't given it enough thought to realize how shitty it is It's very inconsiderate of him. All these are reasons to have some serious discussions. I"am a man married to a female doctor with two daughters one is five years of age the other two and a half. All faiths have vocabulary unique to them. She's such a martyr and a great person for doing this. If you end up marrying a true believing Mormon, your marriage will be a threesome. If yes, do you promise to not proselytize to me and let me drink a simple cup of coffee in my own home. Though they make time for ppl who matter in their life e.
I completely relate to all you've written; many of us have come to see Mormonism for what it is, and the severe damage it does to human brains. Yup, know how that feels. Good thing is you can have multiple wives in heaven if you become exalted. I suggest to run as it will not get better. On the plus side though, after you leave the church, you'll get to spend the remainder of your days bashing it on Reddit. I don't know any other doctor's wives. No one appreciates how demanding it is unless they have lived it, many friends over the years said to me "lucky you, you are married to a Doctor.