Honestly a lovely man but the sheer focus of time and attention has meant there is little if any left for me, I'm lucky if I get 5 minutes in comparison with some nights of 2 hours going on and on and on about work. I hope so; otherwise I will have spent the best years of my life putting him thru grad school and med school. But I've met those 3 dates to engagement couples. Go on dates on days other than Sunday. So if you are dating a Mormon guy, always wear knee-length, avoid tiny shorts, mini skirts, short or revealing dresses, plunging necklines, or sleeveless tops. Again, I deeply love my dad, but these were things that I had to deal with. Going back in time, it was never encouraged for people to marry outside their faith and this covered most christian religions in the United States.
I hope that things will improve and I can adjust to all this. I don't think you should abandon the relationship just because she is lds. Props to your sister. Can they keep a job and or clean up after themselves.
Nothing beats a face to face talk. A quiet, hard working immigrant but dedicated and faithful. For reference we're both in our mids. Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives. Log in or sign up in seconds.
However, from what I have seen he has all of the qualities I want from someone long-term. Please start another thread and continue the conversation. Anyway, I'm sad and disappointed and I know that it will be my job to keep the marriage together. People should marry for love, not money. Is the answer really just communication and uninterrupted alone time. You can't force her to change, nor should you if you could. Unfortunately, I can't answer the questions about marrying him etc. My wife chose me, but most people aren't so lucky.