Takes some getting use to. What a bozza topic. I wanted that full support though I am certainly not saying that marrying a Mormon ensures that. I knew a woman who married a man who converted to the church and she spent the rest of their married life telling him he was not good enough. I'm still holding on and willing to wait for "Better days" with him after his residency. First and most importantly, I see major trust issues in your future if you both think the other is brainwashed.
To his defense, when we were great, we were great. The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag. Have you seen southpark episode on Mormons. Salaries for doctors are declining, with my boyfriend telling me that some nurses now make more than the lowest paid medical specialty - pediatrics. It's the extra socializing, hanging out with residents, stopping by the hospital to visit his best friend. It did not go well. Marriage is unbelievably amazing and indescribably painful; I have been at it for 28 years with my soul mate. Think of every possible scenario you can think of.
He's currently doing emergency medicine and about to start residency. A lot of Mormons escape that pitfall and can put people first. If you are very much willing to accept and understand all of these, whether you are a Mormon or not, you can expect that it is fun to date a Mormon girl. But he has been great till now. Post was not sent - check your email addresses. While a part of me is sad about not having a temple marriage and getting sealed together I have hope that this could change while we are on this earth and I have faith in an ever-loving Father in Heaven who is kind and just and will be able to provide a way for my family to live together in the eternities. Do what feels right. If you can live with some auxiliary authority in your life knowing that your wife will, as necessary, bend to its will instead of yours, you'll cross those bridges as you come to them. This is not about either of you individually.
I have finally realized that the church is fake and I'm so grateful that I got a second chance with this guy. There is no moral issue here. Surgical intern year is much harder than I expected. It is much easier for the Holy Ghost to influence good people.